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My Ex Wrote My Tinder Bio. I’ve Been on 5 Dates in a Week Since Then.

Sumeet
6 min readDec 7, 2020

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So, you’ve downloaded tinder. Your friends may be getting a whole bunch of dates, especially if these are female friends. But for some reason, you can’t even seem to get a single match. Even doing the running man, which is swiping right on every woman that pops up, doesn’t result in any suitable matches for you. So, what are you doing wrong?

Let’s break down what makes an attractive Tinder profile and turn people off when they’re swiping. You don’t get very much time on Tinder to make a good first impression, so the smallest no-no can leave your inbox high and dry.

Not more than one group photograph

If you have too many group photos, go ahead and take them down. It’s great that you have many friends and a group photo that shows that you like to have a good time outside of your room. But if your first photo is a group of 10 guys, girls are more likely to swipe left.

After all, they’re going off looks alone, and they don’t know which one exactly you look like. You can leave a group photo for later in your collection so that girls can establish precisely what you look like even if you run with a really handsome crew. Or even better, you stand out as the handsome one among a rather rough-looking team.

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Sumeet
Sumeet

Written by Sumeet

1xTop Writer. VR, Product & Design. Email: emailtosumeetk(at)gmail.com.

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